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Right, so if you have a problem and I sit up for hours, until the wee hours, telling you you're great and everything will work out for the best I kinda harbour a hope you may do the same for me should the time comes. That's normal, right? But nooooooo. As soon as I'm stressed said friend is AWOL. Feeling "too down" about their own bad decisions (and they are bad decisions) to literally acknowledge me (for weeks) when I'm super stressed and literally just needed one text saying 'you'll smash it don't worry'. I will not be there at 3am the next time you need me because this is like the 4th time it's happened and you're just taking the pish now. 'Sorry, was in a bad place' WEREN'T WE ALL but some of us did not get supportive 'you dont need to reply just know I'm here for you if you need me' texts because, once again, you shut down and closed off. Get therapy please, seriously. Anti depressants alone are NOT the key. This is not healthy.